Regulate → Release → Radiate
Women’s Retreat • Jan 6–9 2026 (4 days / 3 nights) Ashland, OR. Oregon Wellness Retreat $3112
A trauma-informed, tantra-inspired immersion to reclaim pleasure, power, and presence.
All-inclusive means just that. Everything is included. Your room, workshops, gourmet meals, tools, spa experiences, taxes, and more. Even your gratuity for all service persons has already been paid. So you just show up and enjoy! All you have to do is get here.
4 days 3 nights $ 3112. Call or email to check on special rates
A sacred, grounded container for women to unwind survival mode and awaken sensual aliveness. Across four days, you’ll practice polyvagal-informed regulation, shame alchemy, tantric/taoist breath & energy, erotic anatomy for women, guided Yoni Egg practices (can be done energetically), sound bath restoration, and one therapeutic massage. Sisterhood circles, clear boundaries, zero performance—just presence, play, and permission. Leave with a 10–20 minute daily ritual you’ll actually keep.
Melanie Bonk, is a Certified Love, Sex & Relationship Coach, Somatic Trauma-Informed Therapist, and Sexual Empowerment Guide with nearly three decades of lived partnership and a fierce devotion to helping couples and individuals reconnect to their pleasure, power, and truth. She’s also a CrossFit coach and a mama of four boys—so she knows a thing or two about keeping the flame alive through real-life chaos.
Drawing from a rich tapestry of tantric wisdom, somatic psychology, and trauma-informed tools, Melanie helps clients rewire old patterns, dissolve shame, and cultivate sacred, playful, and passionate connection in their relationships. Her signature BONK BETTER method is a trauma-informed, pleasure-based path to deeper intimacy, soulful communication, and full-body aliveness.
Through private coaching, group programs, and her Bonk Better Date Night Membership, Melanie invites couples to ditch “roommate mode” and fall wildly back in love—with each other, and with themselves.
Where Science Meets the Sacred in Service of Your Pleasure.
Held in the sacred mountain ranges of Southern Oregon, Oregon Wellness Retreat offers boutique comforts, spa support, and the privacy this work deserves. Nature here invites romance, relaxes the body and mind, and lifts you out of everyday monotony. You will be hosted in your own private room at our award-winning Inn.
Jacqui Mann, is the owner and facilitator of Bayberry Inn and Oregon Wellness Retreat. She is an accredited practitioner with certifications in Natural Holistic Remedies, NLP, DBT, and Group Therapy. Jacqui is also the Apothecarial Chemist of Botanically Fused Formula (BFF LLC) and works with many professionals to bring the best local offerings to OWR’s retreat guests. Her passion for alternative medicine helps others discover additional resources for their own journeys. Jacqui is a unique and inspiring leader, empowering individuals to find self-advocacy and providing support for gaining additional tools to achieve their goals
Private room with private bathroom at the Inn for 3 nights, all meals, all sessions with Melanie, sound bath, yoni egg, therapeutic 60 minute massage, healing waters evening, gift certificate for intimate shopping spree, all taxes and gratuities.
Options to add on:
Experience a transformative mini session photo shoot, meticulously designed to capture your unique essence and beauty. This package includes professional hair styling and makeup application, ensuring you look and feel your absolute best.
During your captivating photo shoot, our skilled photographer will create stunning images that reflect your personality. You'll receive two exquisite digital portraits as part of this experience. As a special OWR bonus, enjoy an additional three digital portraits at no extra cost, bringing your total to five beautiful images
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