“Continue, always, your journey for personal growth. Care for people. Be honest and accountable. Laugh and hug, OFTEN.” -Billy & Jacqui
Whether we are working on a budget, studying, or scrubbing toilets at the Inn. We have fun together.
Not every couple can partner in work or complete a project together. And that's okay. Find something you both - do NOT necessarily enjoy doing- discover a way to laugh and encourage each other through it.
Grocery shopping, painting the house, or any other "mundane" chore....Make it fun, make it a game, laugh OFTEN together! Appreciate the every day things. Show one another "I've got your back".
Attending a Fund-raiser. We didn't even stay to the end to collect our first place costume award, lol. But the fun we had in the "prep time" leading up the event was our trophy! Shopping, making costumes, and even dance lessons. We turned this 3 hour event into weeks of fun.
Be silly, take chances, and try something new with your love! Even if it doesn't turn out spectacular (whatever it is) you will have those sacred memories with one another. Another, helpful tip: Have a million inside jokes with one another. Remember, intimacy is created by having pieces that are world for only the 2 of you.
Although we want them to be perfect: They are not (and neither are you)
Although we want them to know what we need: they do not (thank God, no one can read our minds)
Although we want to be forgiven immediately: Forgiveness and healing can take time
Although we want to feel a constant connection: If BOTH of you are growing as individuals (as
Although we want them to be perfect: They are not (and neither are you)
Although we want them to know what we need: they do not (thank God, no one can read our minds)
Although we want to be forgiven immediately: Forgiveness and healing can take time
Although we want to feel a constant connection: If BOTH of you are growing as individuals (as you always should be) Growing pains can be an adjustment
Admit when you were wrong. Love them through their mistakes. Support healthy changes. Be each others Best Friend.
If our offers don’t feel like a good fit for you, keep searching out there. Don’t give up. There are not many intensive couples retreat options, within the country, these days. No others are structured like O.W.R. Time Retreats. However, there are so many other options, for coaching/counseling/therapy, during these times. The ability to connect with a therapist or coach online, is very attenable. Do an interview with them, prior. Make sure you and your partner are comfortable with the person. Go in with an open mind, a willingness to listen, and desire to improve your connections. Well wishes to you all. You got this! The fact that you’re searching for alternative ways to improve and nourish your relationship - says A LOT about your commitment to each other.
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